Are you waiting for something to happen before you can believe in love again? You will wait FOREVER!
I know it sometimes seems impossible to believe that there is someone out there who will come and love you. I know I had lost all faith myself after first my divorce in 2001, and then getting dumped from my job in 2004. Optimism was out the window!
And yet I also know that the man I had been waiting to meet forever lived only ten miles away, and he was struggling to believe just as much as I was.
As soon as I did my work on myself, getting past my past heartbreak, I was ready to believe again. And then I met him!
I’m afraid we all believe it is the mechanics of meeting the right one that stands in our way. But this is simply not true. It isn’t about which dating site you choose or how you act on your first date.
It is about first forgiving yourself for past mistakes, and then preparing yourself to believe in your own judgment and inner wisdom this time. Because even if you met the right person today, you wouldn’t know it if you feel bad about yourself.
And if I could find a way to feel good about myself as I sat there unemployed and divorced, you can too. It just takes a dedicated effort on your part and the proper tools. That is my gift to you!
In my book How To Believe In Love Again, I walk you through this process. I explain how early trauma has caused your problems with trust, and created self-shame deep in your heart. Then I show you how to work through these difficulties.
Self-healing is where you begin to prepare for future love. Then you must begin to trust your inner wisdom again, for it can tell you what you need to do next to heal your heart.
I know this all may sound hard, but how much do you want to find love again, and know you have finally succeeded this time?