I decided to give this a bit of thought, and realized there are so many things we could each do to improve our immediate and long-term futures.
First of all remember that what you focus on grows, so be quite conscience of where you place your focus. Are you focused on what you enjoy or just what worries you?
While I always encourage living in the present, what can you do in this moment that your future self will thank you for?
Live in the current moment and know that’s the only moment you need to handle right now, so give it your full attention. When that moment has passed, move to the next moment.
Are you still breathing? Of course you are. You have just handled one moment. Are you ready for the next one? That brings you one step closer to full engagement in your life.
How does your future look from here? What don’t you see there that you really, really, really want? Make that missing experience your top priority now. What small thing could you do today that might bring that goal closer to this reality?
I remember back when I decided my greatest priority was finding ways to believe in love again at age 49. I realized first I would need to forgive myself for past mistakes.
I started reading everything I could find and listening to the music that would move me in the direction of feeling GREAT about love again. I even started my own dating service, because I didn’t like the idea of online dating. And sure enough, I ended up meeting my new love through Match.com!
That is a great story found only in my book!
Love works in mysterious ways, but you have to put some serious effort into focusing on what you want. Look inside and see what you find. Do you find yourself loveable? Would you want to marry you?
I have found that we attract those at the same emotional level as we are when we find love, because love is all about providing mirrors for each other… so work on becoming the best YOU, you can be.